Empathy is the kindness of human nature!

The Analects says: Do not do to others what you do not want to do to yourself.

The Gospel of Matthew says: Treat others the way you want others to treat you.

Empathy is the common criterion of human beings.

Think about everything from the perspective of others, this is the highest state of being a human being, and it is also the highest level of kindness in the world.

Empathy is an understanding

A pig, a sheep and a cow are kept in the same pen by the shepherd.

One day, the shepherd took the pig out of the corral, only to hear the pig screaming loudly and resisting strongly.

Sheep and cows hated its howling, so they complained: 'We are often caught by shepherds, and none of us scream like you.'

The pig listened and responded: 'Catch you and catch me are completely different things. He catches you, just divides your hair and milk, but catching me will cost my life!'

Everyone has their own position and can only see the situation they face.

The arrogance of people is that we always think that the world we see is the situation that everyone is facing.

When the movie 'Youth as a Teenager' was released, some people complained: How can there be so much campus violence, it's just to attract people's attention.

Just because you haven't experienced it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

Don't forget the darkness just because you live in the sunshine.

Don't ignore the suffering of others just because you are happy.

Such arrogance can easily lead to violence and indifference.

Faced with people in different situations, try to empathize, try to understand others, and care about others.

If you can't feel the same way, don't speak ill, please keep the least kindness.

Empathy is a kind of warmth

Once my father went to the store, the young lady in front pushed open the heavy door and waited until he entered before letting go.

The father thanked her, and the lady said: 'My father is about the same age as you, I just hope that someone will open the door for him at this time.

No one is an island, we are connected to each other as the tightest community.

We cannot hurt our right hand with our left hand, we are leaves and fruit on the same tree.

Kropotkin said in 'The Theory of Mutual Aid': Only organisms with strong mutual aid can survive. For human beings, empathy is the premise of mutual aid.

Zhao Dun of the Warring States period saw a man who was dying of starvation on the road. He couldn't bear it, and gave him his dry food.

Later, Duke Ling of Jin wanted to kill Zhao Dun, and this man tried his best to save him.

Han Xin went fishing in the city on an empty stomach, and the floating mother under the river saw him pitiful and invited him to dinner.

Later, Han Xin split the earth and sealed the king, rewarding her with a thousand gold.

Life is an echo, and the sound you make will be heard.

Give kindness, and you will reap kindness.

Warm others, will also reap warmth.

When others are in trouble, you help, and when you are in trouble in the future, others will lend a helping hand.

Empathy, know how to understand the difficulties of others, help others appropriately, and help them get out of their predicaments.

Everyone is a light, may you also be compassionate, considerate, warm and cold nights, and light the way of the world.

Empathy is a kind of wisdom

The wife is cooking in the kitchen.

The husband kept nagging beside her: 'Slow down, be careful! The fire is too hot.

Quickly turn the fish over, put too much oil!'The wife blurted out: 'I know how to cook, so you don't need to tell me.'

The husband replied calmly: 'I just want to let you know how I feel when you are chatting next to me while I'm driving...'

All contradictions and conflicts between people come from not understanding.

Everyone was on their own side, and the other only felt that the other was offending them.

Everyone insists on their own opinions and emphasizes their own reasons, which can only deepen the contradiction.

Try to look at the problem from the other person's point of view, so that you can truly understand the other person.

Only in this way, we will not go to extremes when looking at problems, and we will not be harsh on others.

Heart-to-heart, with this understanding, there is a foundation for mutual understanding.

On a train, a drunk man ran into passengers drunkenly, and the girl asked her mother, is he a bad guy?

Mom said: No, he's just not happy.

The mother thought of herself, and thought that she had been grumpy and hurt the people around her when she was in trouble.

Therefore, she will not bother with this drunk, because she knows that everyone has such moments.

Empathy is the best lubricant for harmonious interpersonal relationships.

If everyone can understand a little more, then there will be a lot less quarrels and conflicts.

Tolerance comes from understanding, and understanding comes from empathy.

If we could change our perspective and think about problems from the standpoint of others, the world would be very different.